Our most vivid erotic dreams occur when we reach a state of lucidity: a heightened sense of awareness in the dream state because of our consciousness of the dream. When we have a lucid dream, it seems much more realistic than a regular dream and we have more control over what is occurring.
So, practice makes perfect?
If you dream about making love near a fireplace then this can mean that your relationship is passionate and fulfilling, in no way passive and boring, and that you have a strong sex drive.
If you dream about torrid lovemaking on water, in a boat for example, congratulations: this means that you are in perfect sexual harmony with your partner.
Should you worry about erotic dreams?
Definitely not! These dreams are not signs of problems: they’re a sign of good psychological health. Your dreams are translated into repressed carnal and sexual desire and you can’t help them. They should never be confused with reality, so there’s no need to feel guilty and to imagine that you suffer from any form of perversity. Well, thats a relief!!
In all cases, dreaming about sex is quite natural and necessary for psychological fulfillment. It also signifies a strong libido and desire to benefit from the pleasures of life. Of course, if certain dreams take a concerning form or disturb your thoughts during the day, better speak to a therapist to deal with any issues. Hmm, any therapists out there? 🙂